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so this goes very deep into us it goes 00:00:12

so this goes very deep into us it goes 00:00:17

so this goes very deep into us it goes deep deep deep into a problem we have 00:00:17

deep deep deep into a problem we have 00:00:20

deep deep deep into a problem we have about guilt 00:00:20

about guilt 00:00:21

about guilt I wonder often if there's any 00:00:21

I wonder often if there's any 00:00:24

I wonder often if there's any relationship between guilt and gold that 00:00:24

relationship between guilt and gold that 00:00:29

relationship between guilt and gold that the love of money is the root of evil 00:00:29

the love of money is the root of evil 00:00:31

the love of money is the root of evil very true say because you see I was 00:00:31

very true say because you see I was 00:00:37

very true say because you see I was saying yesterday that the difference 00:00:37

saying yesterday that the difference 00:00:39

saying yesterday that the difference between having a job and having a 00:00:39

between having a job and having a 00:00:41

between having a job and having a vocation is that a job is some 00:00:41

vocation is that a job is some 00:00:45

vocation is that a job is some unpleasant work you do in order to make 00:00:45

unpleasant work you do in order to make 00:00:48

unpleasant work you do in order to make money with the sole purpose of making 00:00:48

money with the sole purpose of making 00:00:51

money with the sole purpose of making money and there are plenty of jobs 00:00:51

money and there are plenty of jobs 00:00:55

money and there are plenty of jobs because there is still a certain amount 00:00:55

because there is still a certain amount 00:00:57

because there is still a certain amount of dirty work that nobody wants to do 00:00:57

of dirty work that nobody wants to do 00:00:59

of dirty work that nobody wants to do and that therefore they will pay someone 00:00:59

and that therefore they will pay someone 00:01:01

and that therefore they will pay someone to do it but if you do a job if you do a 00:01:01

to do it but if you do a job if you do a 00:01:07

to do it but if you do a job if you do a job with the sole purpose of making 00:01:07

job with the sole purpose of making 00:01:09

job with the sole purpose of making money you are absurd because if money 00:01:09

money you are absurd because if money 00:01:17

money you are absurd because if money becomes the goal and it does when you 00:01:17

becomes the goal and it does when you 00:01:19

becomes the goal and it does when you work that way you begin increasingly to 00:01:19

work that way you begin increasingly to 00:01:23

work that way you begin increasingly to confuse it with happiness or with 00:01:23

confuse it with happiness or with 00:01:26

confuse it with happiness or with pleasure yes one can take a whole 00:01:26

pleasure yes one can take a whole 00:01:30

pleasure yes one can take a whole handful of crisp dollar bills and 00:01:30

handful of crisp dollar bills and 00:01:32

handful of crisp dollar bills and practically water your mouth oh but this 00:01:32

practically water your mouth oh but this 00:01:35

practically water your mouth oh but this is this kind of a person who is confused 00:01:35

is this kind of a person who is confused 00:01:37

is this kind of a person who is confused like a Pavlov dog who salivates on the 00:01:37

like a Pavlov dog who salivates on the 00:01:40

like a Pavlov dog who salivates on the wrong Bell 00:01:40

wrong Bell 00:01:41

wrong Bell [Laughter] 00:01:41

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while it is true therefore we should do 00:01:51

while it is true therefore we should do 00:01:54

while it is true therefore we should do something about changing the situation 00:01:54

something about changing the situation 00:01:57

something about changing the situation the one way of not doing anything about 00:01:57

the one way of not doing anything about 00:02:00

the one way of not doing anything about a situation is feeling guilty about it 00:02:00

a situation is feeling guilty about it 00:02:03

a situation is feeling guilty about it because when people feel guilty about a 00:02:03

because when people feel guilty about a 00:02:06

because when people feel guilty about a situation they most usually instead of 00:02:06

situation they most usually instead of 00:02:09

situation they most usually instead of doing something practical to change it 00:02:09

doing something practical to change it 00:02:11

doing something practical to change it they resort to all sorts of symbolic 00:02:11

they resort to all sorts of symbolic 00:02:13

they resort to all sorts of symbolic methods of expiation they go to 00:02:13

methods of expiation they go to 00:02:17

methods of expiation they go to confession they see an analyst they do 00:02:17

confession they see an analyst they do 00:02:22

confession they see an analyst they do all kinds of things which will be ways 00:02:22

all kinds of things which will be ways 00:02:25

all kinds of things which will be ways of actually not doing anything about the 00:02:25

of actually not doing anything about the 00:02:27

of actually not doing anything about the problem but feeling alright about it 00:02:27

problem but feeling alright about it 00:02:30

problem but feeling alright about it instead and guilt invariably produces 00:02:30

instead and guilt invariably produces 00:02:34

instead and guilt invariably produces that sort of reaction it is a 00:02:34

that sort of reaction it is a 00:02:37

that sort of reaction it is a destructive emotion and instead we need 00:02:37

destructive emotion and instead we need 00:02:44

destructive emotion and instead we need to have a different attitude to our 00:02:44

to have a different attitude to our 00:02:46

to have a different attitude to our mistakes and to our misdeeds Walt 00:02:46

mistakes and to our misdeeds Walt 00:02:52

mistakes and to our misdeeds Walt Whitman always admired animals because 00:02:52

Whitman always admired animals because 00:02:54

Whitman always admired animals because they do not lie awake at night and weep 00:02:54

they do not lie awake at night and weep 00:02:56

they do not lie awake at night and weep for their sins 00:02:56

for their sins 00:02:57

for their sins [Music] 00:02:57

[Music] 00:02:59

[Music] animals are practical in the real sense 00:02:59

animals are practical in the real sense 00:03:03

animals are practical in the real sense as our children who haven't been taught 00:03:03

as our children who haven't been taught 00:03:06

as our children who haven't been taught this extraordinary hang-up are guilty 00:03:06

this extraordinary hang-up are guilty 00:03:11

this extraordinary hang-up are guilty because if you have done something wrong 00:03:11

because if you have done something wrong 00:03:15

because if you have done something wrong and you have made a mistake and somebody 00:03:15

and you have made a mistake and somebody 00:03:18

and you have made a mistake and somebody makes you ashamed of it and guilty you 00:03:18

makes you ashamed of it and guilty you 00:03:22

makes you ashamed of it and guilty you run around licking the sores of your 00:03:22

run around licking the sores of your 00:03:26

run around licking the sores of your wounded ego because you feel your pride 00:03:26

wounded ego because you feel your pride 00:03:30

wounded ego because you feel your pride has been hurt the first thing to 00:03:30

has been hurt the first thing to 00:03:32

has been hurt the first thing to understand is that it is not a serious 00:03:32

understand is that it is not a serious 00:03:38

understand is that it is not a serious failing in the human being to make 00:03:38

failing in the human being to make 00:03:40

failing in the human being to make mistakes 00:03:40

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everybody has to make mistakes there is 00:03:43

everybody has to make mistakes there is 00:03:46

everybody has to make mistakes there is no way out of it you can't learn 00:03:46

no way out of it you can't learn 00:03:48

no way out of it you can't learn anything unless you make mistakes so 00:03:48

anything unless you make mistakes so 00:03:52

anything unless you make mistakes so likewise I know a very great 00:03:52

likewise I know a very great 00:03:54

likewise I know a very great anthropologist who was taught music 00:03:54

anthropologist who was taught music 00:03:58

anthropologist who was taught music playing the piano in the same way I was 00:03:58

playing the piano in the same way I was 00:04:01

playing the piano in the same way I was when I was taught music the school mom 00:04:01

when I was taught music the school mom 00:04:07

when I was taught music the school mom who taught me used to put an 00:04:07

who taught me used to put an 00:04:09

who taught me used to put an india-rubber and an eraser it's called 00:04:09

india-rubber and an eraser it's called 00:04:11

india-rubber and an eraser it's called in this country on the top of each hand 00:04:11

in this country on the top of each hand 00:04:13

in this country on the top of each hand so that I would have my hands in good 00:04:13

so that I would have my hands in good 00:04:15

so that I would have my hands in good posture and every time I'd play a wrong 00:04:15

posture and every time I'd play a wrong 00:04:19

posture and every time I'd play a wrong note she'd hit my fingers with a pencil 00:04:19

note she'd hit my fingers with a pencil 00:04:20

note she'd hit my fingers with a pencil and this great anthropologist had had a 00:04:20

and this great anthropologist had had a 00:04:24

and this great anthropologist had had a similar sort of musical education and 00:04:24

similar sort of musical education and 00:04:28

similar sort of musical education and when confronted with the piano in the 00:04:28

when confronted with the piano in the 00:04:29

when confronted with the piano in the presence of an absolutely marvelous 00:04:29

presence of an absolutely marvelous 00:04:31

presence of an absolutely marvelous teacher in San Francisco she said she 00:04:31

teacher in San Francisco she said she 00:04:33

teacher in San Francisco she said she was amazed he was completely incapable 00:04:33

was amazed he was completely incapable 00:04:35

was amazed he was completely incapable of reading notes he blocked at 00:04:35

of reading notes he blocked at 00:04:38

of reading notes he blocked at everything so another great teacher of 00:04:38

everything so another great teacher of 00:04:45

everything so another great teacher of the piano I knew said simply you must 00:04:45

the piano I knew said simply you must 00:04:49

the piano I knew said simply you must not be afraid of playing wrong notes 00:04:49

not be afraid of playing wrong notes 00:04:52

not be afraid of playing wrong notes just forget it 00:04:52

just forget it 00:04:55

just forget it play it wrong and then eventually go 00:04:55

play it wrong and then eventually go 00:04:59

play it wrong and then eventually go over it again and you'll eventually get 00:04:59

over it again and you'll eventually get 00:05:01

over it again and you'll eventually get it right but you must not block always 00:05:01

it right but you must not block always 00:05:04

it right but you must not block always keep the same rhythm going even if you 00:05:04

keep the same rhythm going even if you 00:05:07

keep the same rhythm going even if you have to slow it down but keep the 00:05:07

have to slow it down but keep the 00:05:10

have to slow it down but keep the proportionate rhythm of one note to 00:05:10

proportionate rhythm of one note to 00:05:12

proportionate rhythm of one note to another and if it's wrong they'll play 00:05:12

another and if it's wrong they'll play 00:05:14

another and if it's wrong they'll play the wrong note as long as you play 00:05:14

the wrong note as long as you play 00:05:15

the wrong note as long as you play something in the right rhythm so you 00:05:15

something in the right rhythm so you 00:05:20

something in the right rhythm so you know this is a way of taking away 00:05:20

know this is a way of taking away 00:05:23

know this is a way of taking away people's blockage people's guilt and 00:05:23

people's blockage people's guilt and 00:05:26

people's blockage people's guilt and shame about making mistakes so you 00:05:26

shame about making mistakes so you 00:05:32

shame about making mistakes so you absolutely freedom means basically the 00:05:32

absolutely freedom means basically the 00:05:35

absolutely freedom means basically the freedom to make mistakes the freedom to 00:05:35

freedom to make mistakes the freedom to 00:05:40

freedom to make mistakes the freedom to be a damn fool and then not to 00:05:40

be a damn fool and then not to 00:05:43

be a damn fool and then not to recriminate with yourself when you do 00:05:43

recriminate with yourself when you do 00:05:45

recriminate with yourself when you do finally realize that it was a mistake 00:05:45

finally realize that it was a mistake 00:05:47

finally realize that it was a mistake but simply don't do it again or at least 00:05:47

but simply don't do it again or at least 00:05:53

but simply don't do it again or at least do it less off 00:05:53

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you 00:06:14